I understand why Beachchick is so worried and asking questions. I really think Beachchick should have her own lawyer, since the insurance companies may well try to split up her friendship with a large $ sign attached to it, as previously indicated.
Beachchick: the lawyer you are "sharing" with your friend may end up...... I think you know what can happen. Hopefully not.
No need to tell your friend what you are doing, you are just getting some independent advice that is specific to YOU and not your injured friend's kid or his Medical plan.
Once again, good luck. Remember, a few extra thousand spent NOW for YOUR OWN lawyer, could save hundreds of thousands later.
Most of us on here are sadly aware of many tragic accidents, and all the advice to spend money on getting your own lawyer is truly the best advise you will get here.
Since this lady is obviously in distress, perhaps Les can peruse his lawyer listings and email the names of a few good sea lawyers to you. The standard auto accident attorney is unlikely to be the right choice in this case, and you don't want to pay the hourly fee to educate him/her in marine law.
My lawyer friends always told me "the best time for a lawyer is BEFORE the oncoming lawsuit hits you, and actions can be taken to mitigate the damage ahead of time."