Jeff, I have to agree with your general premise. But a couple of other things to consider.
The first is whether the boater will be satisfied with the performance in his particular boat. Of course, it may, as you argue, cost just too much to get that.
Second, gas engines pushing a heavy boat just will not last long - especially if they are propped incorrectly for that application.
And finally, I have some problem with your numbers, so let me question them a little. You have a Cruisers 3870, which you say is 43'loa. It probably is, but that's an issue with current measuring conventions. That 3 ft pulpit is irrelevant to our discussion. I would be curious the dry weight published for this boat - although I agree with your decision to state a fully loaded weight. Still, it's hard for gas engines to get a boat that heavy moving at 23 kts. And, to burn only 15 gph out of 454s up to 3750 while loaded enough to move that boat along sounds low. The max fuel burn for those engines is much higher, and 3750 is getting there. So I don't see how you can do it that efficiently. None of this argues against your basic premise, but it sounds just a little too rosy.