This is one of the reasons why I avoid very large gatherings, or raft ups, with a bunch of boaters I don't know.
I find that alcohol and inexperience in these situations never ends well.
We recently had the honor and pleasure of the Blue Angels performing for us on Memorial Day weekend.
Against my better judgement I went by boat to enjoy the show. It was insane. I got there early, and left late to avoid having to move around through the crowd. But some of the stuff I saw was incredible.
We were there on Saturday. Sunday is typically much worse. I kept my boat at the dock on Sunday, but as I was leaving I was asked to accompany two much older men on a small boat to go help the one man's son who had mechanical problems with his boat at the gathering.
I firmly believe in helping a boater with a problem any time I can, because "there but for the grace of God go I".
When we got to where all the boats were anchored to watch the show, I quickly realized that neither of the older men had ever experienced anything like it before. Both are very long time boaters, and avid fishermen. The one man goes out every morning that weather permits.
They were amazed and terrified when we got to where the son was anchored. Saturday was tame compared to Sunday. I saw stuff that even surprised me.
Not many enjoy a nice gin and tonic while sitting in the cockpit at sunset more than I do, but I'm back to my policy of staying at the dock on holiday weekends, and avoiding large raft ups with strangers who carry more alcohol than fuel.
The risk of being sued is a real issue, but the risk of serious injury to someone is of even greater concern to me.