Reefhunter,
My deepest condolences to you and yours. Only those of us who have been there truly understand.
When my dad passed away, the first card I received contained what follows...most fitting I would think for those of us who love being on and around the water.....
I am standing on the sea shore,
A ship sails in the morning breeze and starts for the ocean.
She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her
Till at last she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says:
"She is gone."
Gone! Where?
Gone from my sight - that is all.
She is just as large in the masts, hull and spars as she was when I saw her
And just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination.
The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me,
not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says,
"She is gone",
There are others who are watching her coming, and other voices take up a glad shout:
"There she comes"
- And that is passing on. A horizon, and merely the limit of our sight.